Bachelor Ben Flajnik Tells Us Samantha Was Not There For The Right Reasons Released by Trans World News
January 24, 2012
One thing I was completely oblivious to was Courtney causing such a stir with the other women. I thought that she was just making the most of her moments with me.
It's really hard to not let your mind get caught up in "Do I really know that this person is being sincere?" so I tried to give everyone the benefit of the doubt.
I tried not to go into this experience with the fear that I was getting played, but I will say that if I let myself go there, it's a common fear in any relationship.
Am I seeing the real side to this person? I will say that I appreciated the women who took a risk to come out of their shell and spend more time with me on group dates and not sit back and let other women take charge. I felt like I furthered a number of relationships that day.
Later in the evening, my decision to send Samantha home was something I had thought about earlier that day.
It had been brought to my attention by some of the other women that she wasn't there for the right reasons and it really came through in our talk that night.
It's enough to deal with the fears of falling for someone that won't love you back, but to put energy into a new relationship when neither person sees it going anywhere is never worth it. I wasn't willing to lose valuable time with the other women that I do have strong feelings for.
My date with Jennifer was another date I was really looking forward to for a while.
After all, she did get my vote for "best kisser" and I was hoping she would love the date I had planned for her.
I had no idea she was scared of heights and she tried her best not to show too much fear. But when we were in the crater and suspended above the water, I could feel how tightly Jennifer was holding on.
I realized then that she is the type of woman that trusts her partner and that she will take risks and push herself in a relationship in order to build trust and love.
It was a really cool moment that we shared and what I thought would be a great place to have another kiss.
Unfortunately the water was so deep that I could barely kiss her and stay afloat!
Jennifer had mentioned in a previous conversation that she loved country music, so I saved the Clay Walker concert just for her. He put on an amazing show and it was one of the great moments in my experience as the Bachelor.
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